Why fear remains in mind after a failure?

Let me start with a universal fact that we all want success one way or another. Remember that the thing you need the most is a failure. You can never get success without failure. We all want to erase the fear of failure from the mind but my question is why failure is necessary? If it is not necessary then why nature made failure?

Let me raise another question that what is the benefit of failure? Your answers might be the same as normal people say that it gives you experience, maturity about the field, etc. But remember that the answer to this question is " Failure gives you the price of success ". 

When you fail you come to know that how much success is precious. For example, We often read that Thomas Edison tried 9999 times but failed. Can you imagine the price of the first bulb was 9999 failed attempts? It is said that the total attempts to go to the moon were 16000. After 16000 attempts man reached the moon. The price of reaching the moon was 16000 attempts. 

From these examples, we come to know that failure is not a bad thing. It has a lot of advantages as well. The biggest question of today's topic is that when failure comes why their fear remains in mind for a lifetime?

Let me share a piece of beautiful information that there is a term in neuro-linguistic programming and psychology known as "anchoring". For example, you are walking on a road and suddenly a bike came from behind and he snatched a phone from you and run fast. Now, this incident happened in the past. Even after many years whenever you walk on a road and hear the voice you always become conscious because the fear is stored in your memory and this happens lifetime with you. In our whole life, we face different types of fears and in the future, they fear us that it will happen again.

There was a famous writer known as "Ashfaq Ahmad". He wanted to give a lesson to his students and he asked them a question that " Can you tell which animal comes in zoo in childhood? " The answer was " Elephant ". He said that when a baby elephant comes into zoo management ties it with a chain because the elephant is not easy to handle in childhood. The elephant tries it's hard to break. They don't open it but lose it as the elephant grows and its fleet size grows. At one stage after years they open the chain but at that time elephant doesn't run because at that time physical chain is opened but the chain makes binding with his brain.

The same goes for humans after they brought up a fear that binds to the brain and doesn't let them fly and grow.

Nowadays the same situation is going with COVID 19. Media is making healthy people think that they have coronavirus. Media and all social media platforms are a lasting negative impact on the human mind and psychology. I request the international media that to spread hope because fear limits human performance and this impact on billions of people can be disastrous.

Let me end with a question that anyone can remove unwanted fear from his mind permanently?